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If you’ve ever been in any sort of long-distance relationship — and most of us reluctantly are now because of this COVID-19 bullshit — you’ve probably realised that sexting can only go so far. Eventually, the desire to physically feel your partner in some way, will lead to it mentally, emotionally, or physically overtaking you — or a combination of all three, in most cases. This is where sex toys can come into play in your long-distance relationship (no pun intended).
For example, you’re having a video chat with your partner whilst wearing an app-controlled vibrator, and they suddenly say, ‘I’m going to make you cum in three… two… one.’ They then increase the intensity of the vibrations on the app, bringing you to long-awaited orgasm — all while they’re watching it play out on their laptop.
You get to be their personal cam model, and they can give their OnlyFans dollars to you. Or buy smack. I dunno, I don’t know what the hell you people do.
Anyway, you’ve gotta admit, that’s a pretty awesome scenario, one that you’ll likely want to repeat time and again, thus making your long-distance relationship a bit shorter, even momentarily. And you get to pocket some OnlyFans potential smack dollars. Everyone wins.
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With current advances in technology (which seem to only be getting better every year), it’s easier than ever to be in a long-distance relationship. We now have texting, FaceTime, and sex toys that your partner can control from 3,000 miles away. Is it as good as having sex with your partner in the same room? Fuck no it isn’t, but it’ll have to do.
Even if you and your partner aren’t physically together, with some long-distance minded sex toys and a good imagination — you can definitely pretend that you are.
With all this said, here are a few of the best sex toys for lovin’ in your long-distance relationship. When you’re ready to pick one up, you can order directly from the companies themselves, or check out my article with my favourite sex toy shops and see if they have them in stock. Okay, let’s get started!
Lush 2 by Lovense
For the ladies, my suggestion is the Lush 2 by Lovense. It’s a simple, easy to use vibrator, designed to stimulate the clit and the G-spot at the same time. I really liked the original Lush, so I’m sure this one is equally awesome.
Lovense says the Lush 2 has longest control range out of all wearable Bluetooth vibrators, with a 360-degree standing range from 30-45 feet, and sitting range from 20-30 feet. It’s internet-controlled as well, so it’s able to be controlled at any distance, which is pretty damned cool for any long-distance relationship, to say the least.
Edge 2 by Lovense
For men, my suggestion is the Edge 2 by Lovense. While it’s personally not my bag, a few of the guys I know who’ve used the Edge 2 say it toes a distinct line between being super user-friendly and super high-tech. It almost has the same Bluetooth and distance specs as the Lush 2, with a 360-degree standing range up to 20 feet, and sitting range from 5-10 feet. I know the distance is shorter, but the focus is high on the ladies (I personally have no problem with this, but to each their own). Despite this, the Edge 2 seems like it should be on any list of great toys for any bloke who wants to push their boundaries of doing bum stuff.
Another cool feature with both the Lush 2 and Edge 2 is the fact that you can sync their vibrations with sound, or sync them to music with the Lovense Remote app.
Feeling tingly yet? Let’s move on…
Titan and Fuse by Kiiroo
For couples, I’d suggest the Titan and Fuse by Kiiroo. The Titan features touch-sensitive pads, enabling you to control the vibration pattern and intensity of yours or your partner’s device when you’re getting that synced-up lovin’, which I’ll get into in a moment. It also features nine vibrating bullets, and soft real-feel sleeve, ribbed for your pleasure. Kinda like a reverse Trojan.
The Fuse features a touch-sensitive technology that reacts to your body’s natural movements. Slide it in and the vibrations get stronger. Pull it out, and the vibrations weaken.
The thing I like the most about the Titan and Fuse is that each toy syncs with the other to give real-time shared sensations, with the built-in sensor allowing for bi-directional control of connected devices.
The toys are also available in a combo pack. And if you’re going solo, both toys sync with interactive adult websites, like FeelMe.com.
In Conclusion
Being in a long-distance relationship can suck. Believe me, I know it’s probably annoying as all hell right now. Hopefully, you’ll be able to spend some time with your partner soon, but in the meantime, if you have to be apart, you should totally consider sending them one of these sex toys. I’m sure they’ll appreciate you for it.
Have you used any of these sex toys? If so, which ones? Have you used them in a long-distance relationship? Let me know in the comments.
