In This Episode…
I answer a message I received from a listener regarding switches and alpha submissives, which I felt I needed to answer. Because there seem to be a LOT of words going on in this message, with switches, tops, alphas, Dominants, and submissives, I’m going to individually address the two that stand out the most – being a switch, and being an alpha submissive.
Episode Length: 18:01
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Hi Rajan. How are you? I don’t know exactly what to call myself. I’m a BDSM curious, mostly. I try to read about the subject, manly (basically I was googling about the subject when I find your page).
I so agree to you when you say that switchers are not really Dominants or submissives people, but people that do it as a playfull bed role play. Well I am think I can put myself out n this spectrum. For the little I know about BDSM I think that if you want to be in a BDSM D’s relation you need to be true to your essence and compromise to work on yourself to be the best you can to be a Dominant or submissive.
Because as you explained in your previous podcast if a woman that wants to be a submissive as to work/developed the qualities necessary in a submissive, I humbly think that a Dominant as to do the same right? The main role of a Dominant it’s to take the best care possible of His submissive, right?
His decisions and actions are made to achieve that goal. I don’t think that all Dominants “born” with the natural capacity to do that, so they too need to work/chance their natural behaviours to be good Dominants. Do you agree with me?