'Desire is not weakness.
It's a weapon, wielded by the one who dares to lead.'
About Rajan Dominari
Rajan Dominari's work explores dominance, deep desire, and the erotic spark of surrender.
His words are for those who lead, and those who ache to be undone.
What began as a quiet blog has become something darker, deeper, and more deliberate.
What is Dominant Desires?
A manifesto. A mindset. A mirror.
No fluff. No pandering.
Just sharp insight, real talk, and unapologetic masculinity—for those who demand more than the world dares offer.
Books & Writings
“Not all dominance is loud. Some of it lingers in the silence between your legs.”
Rajan’s essays and forthcoming books are released through Raven Row Press in curated print editions.More coming soon.
About Rajan Dominari
Rajan Dominari has been part of the BDSM lifestyle for over two decades. He is a respected educator, speaker, and consultant whose work is rooted in lived experience—not borrowed theory.
In 2012, Rajan launched the blog Dominant Desires, offering sharp insight into power dynamics, masculine leadership, and the unspoken structure of D/s relationships. Since then, his work has reached tens of thousands—through essays, private mentorship, and Dominant Desires: The Podcast.
He writes not for tourists, but for those with skin in the game. For those living this life, or learning it with honour.
Originally from London, England, Rajan now lives in Chicago, IL. He can often be found drinking a strong gin and tonic, thinking in silence, or imagining the sound of a flogger landing just right.
